There's this guy I met online and yeah I know it's weird that a 16 year old girl met a guy online who is 17 but I did. He's great and I'm really crushing but he's homeschooled because he works a full time job to pay for his car and help his mom who currently has cancer. I know what it's like to have a mom with cancer so I try and be there for him. He does rodeo and so he is very busy with work and rodeo. I understand that he has commitments and I do too. I go to school and I am in a sport. Anyway, the point to my question is he goes hours without replying to a text and I don't want to text him constantly so I kinda wait a couple hours to text again but after the 2nd time I kind of give up. I'm a loyal person and I don't want to talk to another guy but I need to feel appreciated and wanted. I have talked to him about how I feel many times then he says sorry and it won't happen again. he's good about it for a day or two then poof. Back to where we started. I've asked him if he even wants me in his life and he says yes but I just don't know what to do. I don't know if I should talk to him again about how I feel or move on. I'm very confused and I don't want to be hurt more than I already am. I don't want to waste my time on nothing. I'm really crushing. Im pretty sensitive so I'm sorry if this seems stupid.
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Have you told him about your feelings towards him?
And instead of asking him if he wants you in his life, have you asked him if he has the same romantic feelings for you too?
Also, I'm sorry that you don't feel appreciated and wanted, but just remember that guys around that age need a lot of space, and the fact that he has to work, do schoolwork and rodeo, AND take care of his mom who has cancer can be really exhausting. He may be lacking much needed alone time for himself. I understand that you want to talk to him as much as you possibly can, but as you can tell, you can't exactly change him no matter how many times you ask him to. Just give him some space. He might just be busy with school, work, rodeo, or his mom, or he might just be catching up on sleep. He'll respond to you as soon as he finds the time. Just breathe and relax. I wish the best for you both!0