Reasons why you wouldn't date a divorced person thy already has kids?

Would you seriously date someone that has kids? Most people that had children and a previous life have a lot of trouble finding love again... so what are your opinions on this, guys and girls?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I would, but not at this age right now. I'm in no position to be a step mother, I feel it's already hard maintaining a relationship sometimes and kids do truly make it harder. My friends with benefits has children and I completely understand that they come first, but sometimes things can canceled and things come up etc, which can be annoying especially if you're a planner. It may be because they're really young, after a certain age, if they can care for themselves etc it's fine. I noticed most of my mates parents who are divorce usually find someone else when the kids are grown, depending on when they got divorced of course.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I wouldn't say I wouldn't. Nothing I can do about the past, all I can focus on is the future and if we have a really good connection or chemistry with one another, why not take the chance?

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What Girls Said 4

  • You can't help that they have kids. If you like them, love them, care about them- you should love the kids too.

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  • Simple... Because I'm 18...

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  • no not really

    im young and a virgin, i want to share all that stuff i saved for a special guy... not a guy who has been there and done that before AND could have a lot of bitterness because of that divorce or maybe take revenge on me or w. e

    and kids...

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  • -Emotional baggage
    -Don't wanna deal with your ex-wife
    -I love kids, but I'm too young to be a step-mom.

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What Guys Said 1

  • A lot of people don't want kids. And if they are to fall in love with you they have to also fall in love with your kids. You're a package deal.

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