I've been sort of seeing this guy, but he's a bit hesitant. He has a lot of walls up. I really like him, so I have no problem with going slow and giving him the time that he needs. Last night was the anniversary of the worst night of my life. I was the victim of torture at the hands of my ex. I thought I was okay, but I wasn't. I ended up being a mess. I just put it out there, that I'm a fake, the smile I always have is just a cover, I don't want to be on this planet anymore. Now, I'm sure he probably wants as far away from me as possible.
How bad did I mess this up?
What Guys Said 2
You're going to have to give the guy a bit of time to digest what it sounds like you just unloaded on him.
He might run, if he has a lot of walls up, he's probably got his own baggage.
This might also help, showing him that he's not alone in being eff'ed up, as it were.
Give him a couple days then try talking to him. If he doesn't initiate contact first.0
Just give him a day or two one of my girlfriend jumped me with way worse news and after a day or 2 we ended up talking it out and it really helped her0
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