I've been seeing this guy for 3 weeks now and we get on really well and I've not felt this happy in a ages! there's something about him that excites me and he's such a nice guy! Anyway last Friday night he invited me to his friends house for a few drinks which was good! We got quite drunk and ended up having sex and woke up in his arms! Did I jump into bed with him too soon? Have I blown my chances of being his girlfriend?
Most Helpful Guy
I had sex with my current girlfriend after 3 weeks (her choice) and we've now been together 3 and a half years. We are also buying a house together. Hope this helps1
Most Helpful Girl
I don't know... i honestly feel too soon, if i dated a guy i wouldn't feel ready as long as we barely know each other, he could be anyone... and sex is a very sacred thing, you could ever let anyone get that intimate with you so i feel it should be treated with the utmost sensitivity and respect, so i personally would never jump in a bed with someone THAT fast and i worry for those who do because i've never seen things work out for long because most guys like the chalange and if you give it away easily they tend to be put off, so i understand your concerns completely. I guess all you can do is not worry about it for now, stay cool about it and see what happens, it's still too early on to tell if things will work-out even if he's not that type of guy to leave a girl after sex, but don't regret the sex you had ether, i mean you clearly enjoyed it so jsut know even if it wasn't meant to be, you still got a good go of him teehee :D.1