There's a girl at my college who I think is a 10. She's gorgeous and really smart, but she never has boyfriends. I'd really like to ask her out, but I'm not in her league looks-wise. I have a lot to offer a girl, though. I'm just not sure if she's alone by choice. Some of my female friends have urged me to ask her out because they say that she probably never gets asked out by guys because they believe she's out of their leagues. Is this true?
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Yes. It's true for several reasons.
A very hot girl will mostt likely know it. She knows she looks great. She knows all the boys chase her. This causes her to have a very high level of confidence and ego. Guys can get really intimidated by this and while they may love looking at her, they don't necessarily want to bring her into his life.
Another thing is hot girls, because they know every boy probably thinks she is the hottest thing around, she doesn't have to try hard to get a guy's attention so there is no place of charm. As a guy you probably feel flattered by the feeling of a girl trying to be her best around you if she likes you. Hot girls don't do that so you don't get that good feeling from her.
Lastly, kinda similar to the previous reason, guys like to feel wanted. But if the hot girl has sooo many options of guys, chances are she's not going to take her time to make them all feel wanted and special. She will treat them all the same and the guy probably wouldn't want to date her if she can't make him feel wanted.1