I'm 6'4 and 219lbs last year I weighed 296lbs with no type of muscle definition. When I weighed 296 pounds I used to get attention from women and everything , but since I made a major physical change girls won't really get close to me. I'm not shy neither lack confidence. I'm very funny and fun to be around. I get told how good looking I am a lot. I tried talking to this one girl she said she felt special cause I texted her and I asked her why and she said, "she couldn't believe I was talking to her." Then this girl says I give off this persona that I'm a player and im exactly the opposite. Majority of the girls I talk to won't take me seriously and they always seem defensive when talking to me. So what gives?
Please help me, so I can make some changes.
Most Helpful Girl
Well if Brad Pitt texted me i would not believe it either. Now, maybe you are too handsome to be real. Is natural to be unsecure about getting ones hopes too high. Specially if you are the sporty+handsome+funny combo. You need to let girls know you are serious... if you are. Seems to me you talk with lots of girls. Maybe tell embarrassing stories about yourself, just to show them you can be a goof too!1