My boyfriend doesn't seem to be picking up on my moods. Ever heard of the article about responding to "bids"? I make emotional bids towards him to get him to respond and he is either very passive or responds in a way like he doesn't understand what I am saying. It's only sometimes that he is this way though... I just wonder how long it'll take for him to pick up on all of my moods? Months? Years? Days?
Most Helpful Guy
Some guys won't pick up shit and couldn't care less about your mood; not everyone is good at reading their partners either and unless you tell them that something is going on with you, they won't know.0
Most Helpful Girl
some guys r honestly so dumb like that lol. sorry.
like i always believe that the right guy will just be able to read u without trying from a very early stage. if he is just oblivious to how u feel then he either isn't paying attention or doesn't care very much.
i've had guys [friends] who are just able to pick up on how i feel by the way i type... it's just one of those skills some people have and others dont.0