I was crazy about this guy. Had known him for 5 years and finally we were in the same city and both single and he asked me out. We had an amazing first date. I even felt sick walking to the first date and couldn't stop thinking about him. And then we saw each other again on a second date but we both got pretty drunk and slept together. I don't regret sleeping with him, but I don't really remember it. Anyway, he's texted for 4 hours straight every day since then and now I don't know if I like him that much. Did I only like the idea of him and now that I slept with him (whether I remember it or not) am I not that into him? Is the infatuation over? Shouldn't I want to text him all the time?
Most Helpful Guy
If you were a guy people would call you a jerk and that you only used him for sex. I find that a little interesting.
Things like this happens and it's nobodys fault.
Sometime we are in love with an idea of someone rather than the person itself and when we realize that that person isn't this idea or dream we sober up to reality.0
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe you were only attracted to him in a physical way. You probably don't like his character or his personality, that's why you are feeling confused right now.
Anyway, go on a date with him and you will decide then whether you like him or not.0