So there is a guy that I have known for a long time. We got back in contact a few months ago after about four years of not seeing each other. He never really talked to me back then but all of a sudden its like we he wants to re get in touch with me. We meet up in parking lots and just talk for hours we text all the time and when we see each other we both can't stop smiling. and he texts the nicest things but when I try to flirt he acts like he has no idea of what I am talking about. Plus there is a lot of family drama that we have been dealing with... I have no idea what to do?
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I say let him take the step. He is the man! So I would not stress about it, just let things flow naturally. He has to WAKE UP and realize that if he likes you and wants something more he is going to have to flirt with you and escalate.
You are doing great though, you are trying to flirt with him now and then and that is great - you are doing YOUR job on the courting process imho. He is the one that now needs to step up.
Continue doing your thing and wait to see what happens - remember, be cool and have him chase you after0