In this situation.
I'm currently still dating my Asian girlfriend from Japan. For about 8 months on and off now she has refused to sleep with me.
After 3 months of her laziness and excuses I claimed to her that I'm going to end it. We love each other so much. She begs to stay with me, I give in because of the love we share. But she only has slept with me 4 maybe only 7 times in 8 months.
Is it okay to cheat on my love but still want to be with her?
Most Helpful Girl
No it's not.
What you have basically said in this is that you love her too much to break up.
If that's the case, you love her too much to break her heart.
But no. You are still considering cheating. So to me, it says that you are scared of breaking hers and yours heart and being a man about the situation and instead looking for the cowards way of wanting your cake and eating it too.
Cheating is very very rarely acceptable. If your relationship isn't fulfilling you, find a new one. Simple as that. Don't kid yourself into thinking that cheating is okay.0
Most Helpful Guy
No. Cheating is never justified because you're playing with someone's else trust and love. It's unfair to them. In your case, I would tell her about your sexual urges and work something out with her. If she doesn't and you have a much higher libido than her, then you two are not compatible. Intentions of cheating usually mean a person is not satisfied with their relationship. In such a case, it would be best to end the relationship maturely. Hopefully, you two can still be friends if you two want to of course. As if you cheat, you will only create problems and resentment.0