Ok so it's this guy that is my bestfriend and I don't see him as more than a friend but, I think he sees me like that. He asked me out like TWO times already. The first one was when I didn't know him and we started talking and laughing a little then he asked me out and I said no. Now, he has asked me out again but I still said no because I don't see him like that, he's just my bestfriend. He always say hey and hugs me when he sees me in the hallways while we're switching classes, he usually gives me bear hugs. He also does the same thing when I enter the classroom that I'm in with him. Today, he had asked me if I wanted him to walk with me to get my stuff out my locker and get on the bus so I said sure. He also carried my books for me that I had in my hand. He walked with me all the way to my bus and gave my stuff back and hugged me again and told me bye. I wish I could like him like that but I just don't :/ because he's very sweet :) I know you all are going to say that it's my choice but I just want to hear you people's opinions :D @OrdinaryGentleman, @PrettyRican, @CHARismatic110, @rgb008, @cl_517, @Genie23, @MissNowhere, @Applefan1 and @Paris13 can you please answer this question because you guys give GREAT opinions :) <3 also I know I'm too young for boyfriends :P
- Yes you should take a chance and go out with himVote A
- No you shouldn't go out with him (explain)Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
Hey Ashley, sorry about the late reply. I think that if you do not like him back in that way then you should not date him. As others have said if you date him the relationship will all most certainly come to an end, he will pick up on the fact the you were not really interested in him. His feelings will be he hurt and he will turn sour towards you. This will mean the end of your friendship with him. Just kindly tell him that you are not into him in that kind of way but you want to remain friends with him. I know it is hard but this is the best way as if you just go into a relationship with him things will become far more messy.0
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Most Helpful Girl
As wise as an owl that I am, @Ashely_Princess, You are doing the right thing. You are being your own Honest Jane by even "Tomorrow,' Telling him that you do not feel the same but would like to be Besties, if all possible now.
Keep it lite and semi sweet from here on in here, dear. The hugs he may give may lead him to Think he still Might have this hold on your heart so coll this and just Keep it At.. Arm's length as of now.
It's best to be truthful with a sticky situation such as this one and as smart as I see that you seem to be, You know now what you need to do to try and save what is Left of a Friendship that you treasure enough to put out of harm's way.
Best of luck, sweetie. xx0
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