6 months ago, when this girl asked me what I want out of her, I told her upfront that I'm interested in dating her. She was like "why can't we just be friends?" I told her again that I'm interested in dating her and that I find her attractive, and that if she wanted to have friends, she can make friends with other girls or guys who aren't interested in dating her. She told me she only does relationships. I told her that it looks like our interests are different and wished her best of luck and lost touch with her.
Today, out of no where, she calls me on my phone and is super friendly and was like "I just don't know what I want, I don't know what I'm looking for and what I can find in relationships that I give up", and continued to be super friendly. She asked me what I'm up to tonight and tomorrow night. I kind of cut her off with an excuse. Still struggling to figure out what she wants. I mean, if she wanted to date me, she had a chance 6 months ago, but she rejected me and effed up the way I see her. Is she just bored and wanting attention?
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah.. Id say maybe she was interested in somone else at the time when you did ask her out and that went sour, or maybe she's having shitty luck with relationships. But then again maybe she was going through something at the time. Really hard to tell what peoples motives are now and days.0
Most Helpful Guy
Dude you've done better than me in your 6 months, I'm on my 2nd month of no contact in an identical situation to yours and I'm struggling badly trying not to contact her which i have done well to this point, but i always look to see if she's online at work or take a peak when she was last online on whatsapp. I reckon your girl and mine say they were confused at the initial "breakup" period, however I've asked a girl friend of mine and she reckons that my girl loved 2 guys at the same time and rather than hurt me (or us for this matter) she'd rather not hurt me and i stepped up to tell her to go away, i never wanted friendship like you either bro, like you i also wanted a relationship.0
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