There's this girl that I like who just got out of a 2 year relationship about a week ago- she got dumped because her boyfriend said she was not marriage material even though he still loved her. She knows that I like her and she has said she had feelings for me about 2 months ago- she cried when she said that because she felt that it was being disloyal to her boyfriend but couldn't help it. I've always suggested that we should date after her relationship and she has not disagreed or agreed when I brought it up.
Now she's finally single and I asked her how long she would take to move on 3 days after her breakup and she said years but it was a response to my joke because
i said 'a couple of days lol?' and
she replied 'more like a couple of years'
but this was only 3 days after her breakup actually less because he only moved out less than 24 hrs before that... do you think she was being serious or was she too close to the fire so she felt it will be awhile, I feel its a hint 'don't ask me out' but it was really close to when she got dumped so maybe she felt that way then but not now... what do you guys think?
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Well, if you want to be rebound guy, you are on the right path here. What exactly are your intentions with her? How can you think a week is any better than 3 days after a 2 year breakup?
This is quite a can of worms and if I were you I would back off for a bit and let her grieve the breakup. If you started dating her now she will just associate you with her breakup, especially since she had some feelings for you during her relationship. She will end up feeling guilty being with you and that will be that. I don't see it taking her years to date again, but it won't be weeks either.0