I'm black with darkskin and its like they can't determine if they're attracted unless I send nudes or bikini photos. am I ugly?
Most Helpful Guy
Has nothing to do with you being black and everything to do with guys wanting to see you naked. We're visual creatures. We have to like the way a woman looks before we can be attracted, just nature. My advice is to not send naked/bikini pictures of yourself (in the beginning at least) because it degrades you to that guy and he will immediately think you want sex and will not consider you for a relationship.
If a guy won't date you because you won't send him revealing pictures, then he's a piece of shit and you should avoid him, period.3
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes I honestly think some guys are just after nudes and fap material.
It's best not to send those things to those guys unless you want to.
If they argue how will they know you are real, well you tell them to set up a date and meet in person. OR video chat on Skype of something. Those are ways you can prove it to them without having to take off your clothes.
I think it's really disrespectful for a guy to say that you have to prove your real by sending nudes or bikini shots. Any guy who ask those questions should definitely cause you to be more cautious.
If they are truly scared, afraid, terrified even of meeting a girl who isn't their definition of attractive, then they need to just move on. Why is it so bad to go out for a coffee with someone to see if there is chemistry? Has dating really gotten this bad that the guy can't spare an hour or so of his time? If they meet the girl and she isn't attractive, oh well on to the next person! Seriously, it's that easy lol
I can see a request asking for a full body pic of you fully clothed, that's reasonable. But asking for nudes is not okay.0