Some guys on here say a guy like to feel needed but on the other hand I have Seen some guys on here accuse women of being gold diggers because they date a guy and he happens to be the breadwinner. I haven't dated in a while and I'm looking for a job and even when I was working I dated a guy who made more money than me who gave me money or helped me help myself. I want to date again but it's been such a long time and I've been through a lot of rough things in life that I'm even stil in therapy for terrible traumatic things and everyday problems
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Ask yourself the same question.
Would you be happy dating an unemployed man? If not, then your reasons would be exactly the same as men's.
I doubt you'd enjoy constantly "helping him help himself".1