Maybe this is just a girl thing. For instance, this guy in one of my college classes I met last week is a big guy. He's tall (like 6'0) but he's at least 300 pounds or more. He still has muscle (you can tell) but he's honestly overweight, and has a big stomach.
At first, I didn't find him attractive at all. But he has "game"(what people call it) and has excellent social skills. He makes me laugh, he knows what to say AND how to say it, and he's whitty. He is CHARASMATIC. He can get a whole room to laugh at him. So, one day, I asked him for coffee and we went out, than he looked at me and joked "Go out with me tonight you goddess." I laughe, so I had to say yes.
Now, when I see him, I find him attractive. It's so weird, I've had guys like this in the past do the same thing. I'm a thin girl but I don't mind heavier men with a wonderful personality.
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No, this has never happened to me but as you stated, I think it's a girl thing. Men are too visual for this.
I'm still skeptical that the way a guy talks helps him get a girl. I'm very charismatic myself and I still have no luck with girls. I think it has more to do with financial status than anything.0