It could be that he is simply an introvert. My ex hated that I was not a texter nor did I call her often. I also refused to see her at least once a week (I saw her five to six days a week a guy needs a break sometimes) So I would say he just likes being alone sometimes, its not personal, introverts are like that. For me being around people is enjoyable but draining, if I am around people to long I start getting tired and burnt out. So I would say don't worry about it.
Players do whatever they can if they know it works, surely that should have been common sense.
You've just gotta take a gamble and hope that isn't what he's doing to you. Though you're obviously drawn to players if that IS the case, so you're creating your own problems, really.
You never know. I had a guy who was attentive, not much for texting and calling and he was flirting online just a step away from physically cheating which he claims he never did but who knows now. Then I had a guy who was attentive with me and without me and he ended up being an idiot too. At the end you have to go with your intuition just don't confuse it with paranoia though.
I am the kind of person who finds romancing over phone or chat impersonal and frankly a bit off-putting. I only aim to arrange a meeting so we can do all that in person.
He could just be like me.
Because he's busy and has other things to do besides think about you
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he's the kind of guy that likes to do all those things exclusively in person. im more like that than being all lovey dovey over text and phone and also in person as well. I mean that doesn't mean I won't be like that in a text but seldom.
Players are more like cocky and a lot of women find that attractive. In your case, I think the guy likes you but he is unsure about his feelings. I have been there and I have acted the exact same way. I did not plan anything, it was just my genuine behavior.
Just beware of being too attentive and suddenly falling into a nervous spell cause it can influence him as well.
Well, you said he is sweet, charming and attentive but you need to give it some time to see if this is genuine or not.
I guess if he makes you feel like the only girl in the world when he's with you that's good. But are you the only girl in HIS world?
Communication is always the best way to build up experience and trust with two people.
Sorry if this isn't exactly useful. Good luck.
I think that is why they are called players. They can be called serial kissers in my personal opinion. :(
Maybe he's just busy, and has a life outside of with you?
Yeah... they usually are. If he really was THAT attentive he'd call you AT LEAST once a day. If he's not paying that much attention to you it means that he has other things that he gives that attention to
I feel like these guys are just good at faking it to get what they want or appear a certain way in front of others
He's probably a player.
duh... how else am I going get some?
Maby he's in the Cia and can't get back to you
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