We broke up pretty much completely because of him and his disinterest. He said he wanted to like me because I had so many good qualities but he treated had bad views on women in general and wouldn't drop his walls. He never let me in and thought about everything in black and white. He did this in other relationships.
I I liked him and hoped if I continue to be open, honest, kind just myself that he would let me in but this ultimately wasn't the case. I was willing to keep trying if he was because part of the problem is that neither of us have been in a LTR in a while so it take adjusting. He wasn't willing to keep trying so we split.
when I went to get my things as I went to hug him good bye I saw he was crying which made me so confused. I broke down and started sobbing because I just could t understand, I thought this is what he wanted. So why was he crying. It wasn't very fair to me as it just caused me more confusion and pain.
Most Helpful Guy
Read the male Anonymous 30-35 that starts with "Yawn, white knighting never gets old, does it?" It isn't a direct answer to your question, but reading through that entire exchange should give you some insight that may be helpful in unraveling your problem.
Most Helpful Girl
Oh, It sounds like this guy really cares about you, which is why he was crying even though he was breaking up.0