Of course that would be a different case if he is my boyfriend.. but if i am just dating, i would never send the first message ever! even i am very interested in him... However some guys can keep contacting me for years.. but some give up after weeks.. Do you think it is fine?
Most Helpful Guy
"Of course that would be a different case if he is my boyfriend.. but if i am just dating, i would never send the first message ever! even i am very interested in him... "
^as u said depends on da guy... some'll keep contactin but others r gonna give up once u see u never initiate at all... i guess u follow da old-fashioned way where they say "guys should always initiate" (plz correct me if i'm wrong)...
"Do you think it is fine? "
^i beleive MOST guys in our days would like it if a gal was initiatin as well... otherwise they'd think u lost interest (not initiatin means "no interest" most of da time actually)... if u fell to a guy who doesn't have any probs being da one who initiates... then fine i guess...
so i'd suggest u to start initiatin by some degree... just in order to increase yer chances... :)0
Most Helpful Girl
I think it's fine, up until you find someone that you like enough to wanna get serious about. After that, I feel like you'll just want to change your ways for him.0