Say you meet a great guy online or through a friend who you're really into and treats you right and it's all just genuinely awesome. Then you guys decide to meet and he hasn't lied to you in anyway, but it turns out he's in a wheelchair. he doesn't need assistance, he just happens to need a wheelchair. Do you dump him just for this? Or if you met him in person and then got to know him and like him, would that change whether or not you would/wouldn't be with him because he's in a wheelchair?
- I still would. Wheelchair not a deal breaker.Vote A
- I wouldn't. Wheelchair is a deal breaker.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
I don't get why anyone would count a wheelchair as a deal breaker. They're no less independent than anyone else (depending on the individuals outlook on things) and if you were on the receiving end of that discrimination you'd be yelling out the unfairness of peoples judgement.
Besides, it gives you a few more ways to pamper your partner or tease them. Like pushing them where they want to go so they can save their arms or battery, or putting stuff on the top shelf so they have to call you to get it. (Nothing important of course, like the coffee)1