If they are trying to stop, and the scars are small?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes I would, I would spoil her and make her happy to the best of my ability.1
Most Helpful Girl
i would help them, but i feel as though if you are going to commit to someone (as opposed to just dating them casually) they really need to love themselves and get themselves together first. i feel like i can say this, because i once had a friend who self-harmed, and he told me he would often feel guilty because his girlfriend didn't know and he also felt guilty, because not only was he dishonest but he wasn't entirely all together himself. so no i wouldn't, mainly for the sake of the other person.0