Okay so I went out with a guy on a date Friday! It went great he sent me a long message telling me how he had a great evening and would love to see me again! He texted me all day saying things like meeting his niece and nephews if I wanted too! Making arrangements to do stuff in the future, telling me he liked me! He wanted to see me the following night & we chilled at his & we was messing about but only went to 3rd base. He may no hints of pursuing for sex. However today he has gone cold & has hardly messaged me, though he has been on the dating site we met on. Is he testing me to see how I will react? Or has he lost interest? Do I just leave it for a couple days till he messages or if not message him?
Most Helpful Guy
I think you are just panicking. Give him some more time to reply and just have some more patience. I am sure he is just trying to play cool or he is catching up with stuff in his life.0
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet. You barely know the guy. See if you can arrange another date. If he's being cold, evasive, doesn't want to hang out, I would say its literally him and not you seeing as how you said you guys had a great time together. I wouldn't go to badger route of what happened? do you not like me? what's wrong with me? thing because again, 2 dates, but just go for one more and if things don't seem like they are going anywhere or he's uninterested, hate to say it, but move on.0