I was working with a couple of let's say... urban gentlemen (far from gentlemen).
We were talking about relationships and how I met a girl liked her she told me about her less than stellar pass but she refused to change.
My co-workers just laughed and told me it's called "operation save a ho." It never works and they are only good to mess around with but do not love them. They said can't turn a ho into a house wive that hos don't deserve love. I thought that was pretty ruthless and cold to hear from them. They just said "just trying to help a brother out. Follow those rules and you'll never get hurt.
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Your colleagues are morons. Can you imagine a group of girls discussing a guy who by your own statement has probably 'messed around with a lot of hos (sic)'? Would we call it 'operation try to pin a guy down who thinks he is successful in the bedroom department but in actual fact cannot maintain a long term relationship because he is shit in the bedroom'? No we would not.
The only thing that counts is whether you like this girl... if you do tell her, if you do take her out and if you do and she likes you too I'm sure it will develop into a wonderful thing☺0