Recently a new guy just joined my group of friends. I noticed he would stare at me & a couple weeks ago he got my # and we've been texting nonstop since then. He's asked me to hang out one-on-one a couple times but it was last min & i couldn't make it. He finally planned something in advance & asked me to go to an art museum/park over the weekend. The whole time we were together he wasn't flirty or anything, and when we had lunch & I offered to split the bill he didn't object. But the next day he texted "I had a really fun time with you yesterday, let's hang out again soon!". I'm super confused if this was a date or not.. by the way he seems pretty reserved.
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Without knowing his history, it's just a guess, but I'd say this was 'getting to know you.'
SOME people would say that is a date, but generally people say an art museum is just 'getting to know you' , and most people, rightly or wrongly, would say splitting the bill disqualifies it as a 'date'.0