Why do men stop trying?

Once in love or they feel their girl won't leave why do men stop trying? It pushes us away and we do eventually leave.


Most Helpful Guy

  • I never stop trying lol, maybe take a short break and recharge from trying, but I'll never actually fully halt to a stop from doing it.

    Relationships are like a garden after all they both require consistent care to flourish and grow.


Most Helpful Girl

  • Both in a relationship need to put in work for it to flourish. That's why sometimes you'll hear a man say "Oh, she let herself go" (which is rude but it might be accurate) and a man might not keep up with the romance to make their woman feel special.

    Once the honeymoon phase is done, that's when the work begins. Relationships take a lot of work, too.


What Guys Said 2

What Girls Said 1

  • The problem here is that men and women are hardwired completely differently. As women, we tend to think, value and believe certain things that are different to what a man would tend to think, value and believe.

    See, what’s intuitive to us women, can be completely foreign to men.