I never have really chased. Every sexual encounter and every relationship I ever had I made the girl chase for me after. It always worked in my favor because I had the cards on my table and it would always up my value in their book.
I've never chased a guy. Im like you, its upped my value and I had the cards on the table. For that reason i would never recommend that a woman chase a man because they always seem to end up getting played. but i see why you would want a woman to chase you. we all are trying to get treated right and not be played
I don't like the idea of chasing or being chased. The idea of chasing just sounds immature in today's society, and in the end, it makes it sound like they are just an object/end goal. As soon as you treat them like an object/endgoal, that spark starts to dissapear, because you're not treating them like a regular human.. Just some prize. And dating never really ends, even when your married (or at least healthy relationships).
I wish people were real with each other and told each other how they felt, and took responsibility for their actions and equally held their weight in keeping a relationship alive.. I'm tired of being tested. I'm not going to go above and beyond repeatedly to attract a woman anymore. I'll try once or twice to get her attention and ask her out, but if I don't get a response, I'm moving on.
Yeah, I've done it, she says she's confused, that she is not sure about dating me (she doesn't know if she's bi or straight) I've chased guys too, got friendzoned twice, but usually guys accept, they find it cool when a girl makes the first move XD
Only a few times in my life, otherwise all my relationships blossomed out of friendship/acquaintances. I don't believe in cards on the table or power play in relationships, I have no qualms about walking away from a crazy woman who thinks she could use stuff like that to somehow change the way I act. At this point of my life I have a good idea of what I want and really its women that have to step their game up.
I'm so glad that there is a guy who lets women chase him. Don't listen to Steve Harvey, knowing Steve only wants women to feel like a grand prize for a man to win, but not the other way around sometimes. Men should feel special too.
Just don't be too easy by letting women chase you, cause that's how women do men. It has nothing to do with you playing games, it's you taking relationships seriously, cause you want to see which women is good enough to spend the rest of your life with you.
I've never chased a woman since I don't have the balls to do it. And the Internet has terrorized me to the point where I'd convince myself I was a creep or stalker if I actually did end up doing it.
A woman has never chased me, but I can see that as something that would be fun. Anyways, for now, I'd prefer to live in peace and focus on myself before anything else. I do respect a lot of the guys here who straight up said they wouldn't chase women out of respect for themselves.
I don't tend to 'chase' women all that much. If I find someone whom I think would share certain interests then I try and strike up a conversation. I'm a tad shy when it comes to interacting with women. I might have some predispositions running around my noggin, but I try my best to come off as unbiased as possible when I'm speaking to whoever I'm speaking to at any given moment.
When I was a boy, yes. Now as an adult, I don't chase anyone anymore. I just don't like games and will not play none of that stuff. I take a woman's no to mean no. If she isn't being serious, then she got the wrong guy.