I never have really chased. Every sexual encounter and every relationship I ever had I made the girl chase for me after. It always worked in my favor because I had the cards on my table and it would always up my value in their book.
Most Helpful Girl
I've never chased a guy. Im like you, its upped my value and I had the cards on the table. For that reason i would never recommend that a woman chase a man because they always seem to end up getting played. but i see why you would want a woman to chase you. we all are trying to get treated right and not be played3
Most Helpful Guy
I don't like the idea of chasing or being chased. The idea of chasing just sounds immature in today's society, and in the end, it makes it sound like they are just an object/end goal. As soon as you treat them like an object/endgoal, that spark starts to dissapear, because you're not treating them like a regular human.. Just some prize. And dating never really ends, even when your married (or at least healthy relationships).
I wish people were real with each other and told each other how they felt, and took responsibility for their actions and equally held their weight in keeping a relationship alive.. I'm tired of being tested. I'm not going to go above and beyond repeatedly to attract a woman anymore. I'll try once or twice to get her attention and ask her out, but if I don't get a response, I'm moving on.1