i kinda feel uncomfortable when someone pays for me, except if it's someone close like my dad or if I've been dating the guy for many dates. the last guy I was dating he asked me what do I think about the girls who make the guy pay them for everything and I just said that I'm an independent woman and I don't need anyone to be paying me for anything (unless it's my dad or brother etc) so that night I paid my dinner but the rest of the others dates and dinners we had he didn't let me pay. it is ok that or should the guy be paying everything?
so if he doesn't pay on the first date should u leave him?
Independent women who feel like they can't let a man treat them like a lady tend to end up with fuckboys who expect to be taken care of. I'm not saying be dependent off a guy to live and ask him to pay your bills, but if he asks you on a date he can pay for dinner.
I think for the first couple of dates yes, once you guys are together i see nothing wrong with the girl paying, guys deserve to be spoiled too.
Split the bill. Once in awhile is okay for the guy to pay but not all the time. I feel uncomfortable when a guy pays for everything, im from a rich family and him doing that makes me feel like ad if i cannot pay for myself or that im poor.