I like a guy but i dont want a relationship. I've put him in the friendzone and even said we should try being friends with benefits. I get the feeling he's not down to be anything. he's stopped texting me for a day. So im under the impression he doesn't know what to do with me. Am i playing games and dont know it? Would any guy get fed up with this?
I'd stop trying with her.
I'd be friends with her.
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It depends. Sometimes girls say that so that you go away, it doesn't mean she wants to have a friends with benefits. But other times girls say that because they don't wanna get attach and have casual sex, either in a friends with benefits situation or with random guys.
I would ask her what she really wants and then decide. In your case, you said you wanted a friends with benefits but he stopped texting so it means he would only pursue something with you if it was serious. I don't think you're playing games cause you were straightforward and told him what you wanted.
No girl has ever directly told me "I don't want a relationship." That would be a lot better than the responses I do get.
Supposing a girl did say that, I would take it at face value and stop pursuing her. I have always suspected that much of the time it isn't meant to be taken at face value, but the risk of being labeled a "creep" by trying to find out if she really doesn't like me is too real. I wouldn't try being friends, that just wouldn't work.
If he's any kind of man at all he won't give you the time of day. Your reasons for not wanting a relationship may well be legitimate. But when you reject a man, he will usually, if he has a backbone blow you off, walk away and never speak to you. Why should he?
"and even said we should try being friends with benefits. I get the feeling he's not down to be anything. "
What is he gay or something? That's the best option lol.
I'm in the same situation with a girl, but our problem is distance and time. She's friendzoned me but she wants to hang out and doesn't want a GF/BF thing. I think she just wants to hang out every blue moon and fuck. I wouldn't be fed up with it. In fact you sound like my kind of girl since I don't want a girlfriend. However, I'm not other guys. Most guys don't like that. It's understandable. I think you should give him more time than a day though. Maybe a few days. Maybe he's upset and needs to cool down. Then talk to him again and if he still doesn't want what you want you gotta let him go.