I while back I really like this girl and I would be sweet to her then not give her attention for a few days. It would be great to see the look she would get when she saw me again. Like a warm glow of "yes! he's coming over to talk to me." I didn't want to seem clingy or overly persistent... but this went on for a few months. She would say she was busy or didn't want to date but I still gave her attention. I would of taken a hint if she would of not... flirted back. But I guess one day she was ready or whatever... probably tired of me asking her to have dinner with me. When we finally did go on dates, I thought... wow she is not as great of a person as I thought... I don't like her as much as I thought I did... this isn't going to work out. Do any other guys feel this way?
Most Helpful Girl
Well you opened up opinions go gal as well so...
consider this situation TYPICAL of dating
shopping for a fit
while having fun doing it
No big deal, just don't lead anyone on and waste their time, try to salvage all as at least friends thereafter1
Most Helpful Guy
Happens a lot to me too, I think we all desire something that we can't have and when we realise that we can have something it doesn't look that valuable to us1