Seems like I always attract men 8yrs+ my senior and guys my age never seem to notice me OR think I'm boring! They often say I need to get out more and have fun then just stop talking to me.
Older men don't seem to mind but I don't feel as happy & alive with them. They're not too exciting honestly.
Even in college I get more attention from older men and it's nice I guess but I usually lose interest in them fast because I can already tell they're like all the other guys I've talked to.
I'd try approaching guys my age but they always lose interest because of my simple boring life.
Most Helpful Guy
If you are "boring" then you may need to find a boy that is "boring", which means he is probably either in class, doing homework, or in the lab and is too busy to date. You need to do it fast, because when they become wealthy, all the "exciting" girls will be after them.
Older men are already past that busy part of their lives and may not want the drama that comes with more flamboyant women.
What you mean by "like all the other guys I've talked to"? That could be part of your problem.
Here is something that always works. Instead of seeking a person with the qualities you find most attractive, seek the type of men who find your qualities most attractive. You then try to get close to what you like from that pool, but at least you will get a date.1
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Most Helpful Girl
They're all over just hidden, maybe the bookstore or look around more closely0