I'm on OKCupid and I go out with a lot of guys. Sometimes I really like a guy but I feel that since I wait too long to have sex they end things. If I have sex with a guy right away I know it's not going to lead to anything serious.
After how many dates can I have sex with a guy without him thinking I'm a slut.
Most Helpful Guy
Have sex when you feel comfortable... there are no rules. You may want to wait or you may be overcome with lust and do him first night.2
Most Helpful Girl
If a guy ends things only because you waited too long to have sex with him then he was only after sex. I would recommend never having sex on the first 5 dates. When you feel comfortable enough with him and when you think that your relationship is actually going somewhere and that there's a connection beyond anything physical that is an indicator that it would be okay to have sex with him. Even if it occurs before the first 5 dates I would still not recommend having sex with him unless you've known him for a long time before dating him.1