So this amazing girl and I went out to dinner the other night. I met her at her house. Waited for her to get ready. We left and ate dinner at her favorite place. Talked for a while. We went to the movies and found a different movie, we missed the movie we were supposed to watch. We went back to her house and talked, I met her roommate and her roommates boyfriend and we talked some more. We went for a walk, at 1AM. Then we went back to her house and we talked some more. We talked about her religion, she is Mormon and I am Catholic. We went through her photos and she virtually introduced me to all her friends. We talked about family history, the good kind. She gives off all the right signs, she had her legs crossed towards me. We sat close the whole evening. She was always leaning towards me. When she looks at me she smiles and doesn't pull her gaze away. She was sitting erect. There was never an awkward moment.
Anyways, the next day she invites me to a NYE party with all of her closest friends. We met at her place again and she drove us to her friends house for dinner. I met all of her closest friends, guys and girls. We all got along really well! Her friends were very inviting and none of them were stand-offish. We went to the dance and had a great time. On the way to the dance and back from the dance we talked a lot. Communication between us has never been awkward. Except when she was telling me about all her loser ex-boyfriends. None of them had any respect for her. All the alpha male strong types. Some even forced their way onto her... I am a pretty fit guy but I'm not one of those alpha males that has no consideration, the type all women are instantly attracted too... Anyways I am trying to figure out why she won't text me back. She has been to busy for me to call so I text every once and a while. Before the date she would always text back immediately. I have known her for at least a year and a half. She has never delayed in responding to me. I can't figure out what I did wrong... I am the nice guy, I am respectful and I open doors, pull out chairs, pay for the whole night. Ect..
Anyways we have plans on Sunday to go to her church and I am not sure what to do. I want to build a friendship with her but I feel she is putting up walls. I have also shown her that I want to learn about her religion and that I want to convert to the LDS. Help, is she interested in me even a little?
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Basically, girls do that (with the texting) try to torture guys. They want to get you hooked on them. However, this happened to a guy I know and as it turned out...the girl in the end said she just wanted to be "friends". Yeah, it sucked I know. The problem is that sometimes guys are "too nice" that it gets disgusting...be normal not "too nice". She can breathe on her own she doesn't need someone to do it for her if you know what I mean. converting? think of God, don't do it because of a girl. I think you should tell her how you feel, but don't loose your manly touch...show her she has nothing to fear from you like her past exes. And remember be respectful, and nice, but don't do everything for her because take it from a girl who knows...it gets annoying. And if she doesn't like you like that or turns you down, then forget about her. I think you should pay attention to the way she acts when you two are together in person rather than how fast she texts back though.1
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