Well... looks like I just won't have a girlfriend in high school, I mean, going into senior year I know the same stupid fucking people, most of whom rejected me, and, the only one of whom I tried remaining friends with I barely talk to anymore. The only girl I think I even have a chance with started going out with another guy on what would have been our first date. Sigh, you public school kids don't know how easy you have it, me, I'm stuck in a mostly white boys school where all the girls I know are also white. Jeez, I won't even be able to go to prom...
Most Helpful Girl
If you’ve never had a girlfriend, then you may be nervous about wanting to find someone as soon as you can, but the truth is, you’re far better off waiting for the right girl to come along than in rushing into a relationship with a girl you don’t really like.
Look for a girl that you may be compatible with, who you think is an interesting person that you’d actually like to get to know. You may not know the girl that well, but if you get a good feeling every time you’re around her, then there may be something there.
It’s a good idea to go for someone who you can see yourself really starting a relationship with. That said, you don’t need to be so picky that you’re only willing to ask a girl out if she seems like she can be your soul mate.
Try to find a common interests. If you like sports, join an intramural sports team or go to local sporting events. If you like music, go to concerts or join the band or orchestra. If you like books, go to the library or a bookstore. The internet is excellent for finding people with more obscure interests.
Most Helpful Guy
Dude, stop worrying about having a girlfriend. Girls are not worth self-loathing. Statistically speaking, you WILL have a girlfriend at some point in your life, probably sooner than you think. If you really want a girlfriend then find one outside of school. High school isn't the only place to get friends. You've said in previous questions that you are actually attractive but if that is true then the only thing holding you back is desperation. Girls can smell desperation a mile away and it turns them right off.2