So I had a first date last night with a guy I met on match.com, and we were hitting it off really well. We talked for hours, were laughing and just having a great time. He didn't want the date to end so he asked if I wanted to go see a band play and hang out more. Throughout the night he kept saying how he was surprised at how amazing I was and that he really wasn't expecting that. He made sure to make me feel at ease and not pressured one bit about anything. I think we hit it off so well because we are both pretty much goofballs and when two goofballs get together, it can be so much fun. He said that he liked me and would definitely like to see me again.
When the band was done it was pretty late and he joked around about going to his house to watch a movie. I felt really comfortable with him so I agreed. He seemed rather shocked at that and made a point to say that nothing would happen, he just wanted to spend more time with me. It was all a big joke and we even shook on it, just for funs sake. We get to his apt and cuddle on the couch while watching the movie. He then kissed me so sweetly, and quickly things started getting hot and heavy. Me not wanting to be "that girl", I quickly stopped it and said I should probably leave. He told me he was glad one of us was strong willed lol. On my drive home he texted me that he had a really great time and said I would certainly hear from him soon.
So my question is...how long should I wait for a call before I give up? It's only been a day, but I'm pretty new to dating so I don't want to get excited about something that may not happen. I've been out with many "players" in my day, and he really didn't give that impression so if he is one, he's REALLY good at it. He didn't make any kind of moves or impression that he would, until that kiss, but then again I am a gullible person.
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Seems like you made a good connection. Going one day without talking to someone is just fine. Don't give up. And if nothing else, you can make the call, too. He might want things to slow down a bit, but it seems like he really likes you. So I'd say you should definitely set up another date!0