It's not exactly natural to need to ask so many questions about these sorts of things. Sex is supposed to be the most natural thing in the world, but these days aa shitload of people seem to need help getting to sex.
So yes, I think having to use this site for trying to get a girlfriend or have sex means you're at a point of desperation. I think I'm pretty fucking desperate. I'm just so god damn curious to see what sex is like.
I would like a partner in real life, but no, I don't come here to hit on women or seek out anything with them. I came here initially to ask a question, then I just fell into talking with people here and sharing my opinion.