I met a girl almost a year ago in a party with a friend. I felt atracted to her but thing got complicated because my friend asked her out first. She rejected him but they have been in touch since then and he always talks to me about her... not sure why he does that but I feel a little jealous. He always talks to me about the pictures she puts on facebook but I can't see them. I have no contact with her because our encounter was brief and I did not find the right way to ask her contact information and I refuse get it from a third party such as my friend or simply add her on facebook. I dont know why but it has been a long time and I still feel that nervousness every time he talks about her. I dont know what to do... apperantly the only way I can see her again is though him but I'm not sure if he is still interested in her. I don't know if I should ask him if he is still interested and express my interest for her to him. I don't know what this can cause in our friendship!
How do I deal with this?
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If I were in that situation, I would ask your friend. You don't have to express interest for this girl to him yet. I would just keep a low profile and wait a little--see the cards fall, etc. If he's not interested her, then I would express your feelings. Possibly, if your friend is okay with it, he could help you. Who knows? Either way, I would make sure to put yourself out there to that girl and find ways to communicate/hang out with her without your friend being there.
Hope this kind of helps!1
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