I'd maybe like to know the number and type of encounter but I definitely don't want any specifics.
I don't want to hear "well I blew johnny in the back of his civic in the school parking lot, david fucked me on the kitchen table... ect"
I'm leaning more towards not wanting to know anything tho. I feel like most girls lie about their past anyways so I'd rather just use my gut. So if a girl gives me a promiscuous vibe I'll just write her off. If she doesn't then I'll date her, I don't need to know the specifics. I'll just put her in a range low #, med #, or high #. And if I'm wrong, ignorance is bliss.
Nah. The past is the past. What counts is now and the present. I wouldn't feel comfortable talking about past experiences and wouldn't like hearing about them either. It's one of those things that I think is better left unsaid.
No I wouldn't. I don't want to here about it no matter what the experience. Your ex was huge and the best you've ever had? Ok... I don't care and you shouldn't tell me. Your ex wasn't so big or was the worst you've ever had? Ok... I don't care and you shouldn't tell me. I don't want to hear about another guy having sex with the girl I'm with, even if it was years ago. It wouldn't be grounds for a break up if she told me, but it would be odd and might hurt a bit.
If they tell me that's fine but I never ask. When my gfs asked me I never told them the whole truth because I'm sure it would bite me in the ass eventually. One of those convos that are better left avoided.
I actually already know a lot of the stuff he has done and with who. It's just one of those things that doesn't bother me like it should. I mean the past is the past.
If he had an STD or something I'd want to know, but otherwise hell no, I don't want to hear about him having sex with other women. Luckily my boyfriend has a medical condition with a bad memory and doesn't even remember his sex life with his ex's
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