So we got together last week. We've been bestfriends for almost a year and I fell in love with her. We planned to go to a garden museum far from the city, and I thought that it was the right time to finally ask her out. Unfortunately, there came a storm and we couldn't find the time to go there soon because of college. However, last week she asked me out to our favorite local hip breakfast cafe. And she confessed her feelings then, because it was eating her up too. We held hands and there was this energy that gave me the urge to kiss her, but I didn't know if she'd like me to, as we're in a public place. She's a beautiful, intelligent, kind, sophisticated and decent girl, and I don't know when should I kiss her. Should I wait for her to make the first move (coz I don't want her to feel disrespected) or should I just wait till we get to that romantic garden museum and make the move there?
Most Helpful Girl
id give it a little more time if i were u. u guys seem to have something wonderful happening but dont do it too soon or u will give her the impression that ur intentions aren't completely right.
maybe hold her hand, hug her, kiss her hand even if u want, but wait a little before u do anything else.0
Most Helpful Guy
For me if you get to hold hands you can feel the energy and vibe around oneanother and move in for the kiss. First, second or whatever date - some people take their time some people feel if nothing happens in the first few then it's pointless. You aren't going with the goal to sleep with her, you just want to kiss her to get a bit more sensual with each other..
So, next time you get into a little intimate spot (bench, park, quiet corner in a restaurant, drive into some random location in the night, lake during the day/night etc...) just get into holding hands or get physically close to her, see how both of you get shy and nervous then just go for it.
Obviously when girls make moves, for me that is unbelievably awesome. Proactive girls who aren't afraid to take what they want, but due to this silly stereotype invented by mankind men are forced to make a lot of first moved with dates, kisses, etc. So, maybe she is waiting for you - don't let it go on too much!
Enjoy it, once it's over, even if it's bad (it won't be) you will both enjoy having gotten closer and over time (you have confessed feelings to each other anyways) you will get better and responding to each other's sensual needs.0