I went on a first date with a guy after chatting for about a week via text and over the phone (calls). He went on a vacation the weekend before and we texted all the time while he was there. When he got home from the date he immediately texted me that he had a good time, and I told
him I had a blast. We chatted for the rest of the night (he only takes about 3-5 mins to respond). Throughout the conversation I asked if we would like to get together again sometime that week and he relied something like "possibly, I have to check what I have going on this week" and then be immediately followed it with "I'm exhausted I think I am going to go to sleep" we said good night but I don't know. If a guy was interested would be not say that he wanted to hang out immediately? Did I come on too strong?
Most Helpful Guy
"I asked if we would like to get together again sometime that week..."
hopefully he asked you out for the first date... regardless, it's bad practice to take the lead early on (inquiring bout dates, etc). the aggressiveness can deter guys, robbing them of the chase, challenge, wonderment, creativity etc...0
Most Helpful Girl
maybe he genuinely has to get his head back in to every day life and didn't want to mess you around with times and days? see what he says tomorrow x0