okay so I'm in a fairly new relationship, only a couple weeks, but my girlfriend is really into me, and I'm really into her, but for some reason I always have the thought that I'm being lied to, not just by her but by everybody. she tells me don't ever leave her, she'll be mine forever and everything, but she has this guy friend that is like a brother to her, but I'm worried it might be something more, like during the time we've been going out, she's barely talked to this guy because me and her on the phone all the time. but this guy looks a lot better than me, in my estimation but she says he doesn't, and that she just looks at him like a brother. Should I be worried about this guy? she said she doesn't think of him in that way, and she doesn't ever want to lose me, and she's got trust issues because she's been lied to and cheated on so many times, but she trusts me to not do that to her. I don't know how I should feel, should I be scared of this guy? I really love this girl I don't want anyone to take her away. I know only a couple of weeks is a short time but I know I love her, she tells me she loves me too.
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NO NO NO NO.
His looks don't matter to her if she is so into you.
He is like her brother, she would feel weird to have something with her brother - trust me I know.
Remember that looks aren't anything. Please remember that, especially when going into the dating world. Looks don't be there for someone, care for someone, love someone or keeps them warm at night.1