Long story short, I friendzoned a girl that I like, and she friendzoned me. We did it because we were both in relationships. This girl was showing so many signs of interest (still is), always contacting me, complimenting me, laughing at my unfunny jokes etc. Anyways, we're both single now and I asked her out, and as I suspected she said yes. Well she cancelled the date and suggested re-scheduling it (she was "sick") for another day which I was cool with. She then didn't show up to the date. I have a feeling that she's testing me to see if I'm insecure, but I haven't even said anything about it. Am I just grasping straws or what?
Testing me or not interested?
What Girls Said 1
she's testing you.0
What Guys Said 1
I think the play here is let her cancel and reschedule once or twice without any protest. You guys are friends. You can give each other the benefit of the doubt. Hopefully it'll end there, and you go on your date.
Talking about the issue would just give it substance.
Anyway, I heard girls get really resentful about being second choice. Show her affection.1
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