Today it's easy to confuse being nice with being flirty or interested. I have tried that guys thought I liked them just because I was being friendly and helpful.
I meet this guy a few weeks ago. But I'm not sure if he is being nice, he is a nice guy. Or if he really is interested. I don't know if I'm overthinking it.
He stares at me a lot.
His body is almost always facing me.
He looks at me when he makes a joke.
Once a friend and I made a ironic joke about me. He was sitting nearby. He just sat quietly, looked at me while smiling.
I'm friends with some of his friends but we rarely meet. He is doing some things that makes me think, that he is just being nice. E. g we are not friends on facebook, even though we have about 20 mutual friends, he won't make much contact. A few days after we met, he would join the group of people I was talking to, but he stopped doing that.
But it could be because I have been a bit rejective. I don't know? Maybe he's just being nice and I'm overthinking it? Or could he be interested?
What do you think?
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He seems to be interested or at least finds you attractive, I would be paralyzed in fear at the thought of walking up to a group of my crush's friends, completely irrational I know, but still. Maybe he figured you didn't like him back on top of the fact that you rarely see each other. Has he done other things to get to know you?1
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