I was actually dress preppy, modest and elegant. My makeup was neutral. However, whenever I go out, I attract the attention from old perverted men at the ages of 50+. Why is this?
Why do I get a lot of attention from OLD perverts?
What Guys Said 12
I suspect it has something to do with 2 million years of human evolution. Here's a chart from Christian Rudder's book Dataclysm. You might find it enlightening. What women find attractive tends to stay in line with their age, but what men find attractive tends not to.
You state it's deflating to your ego. Well, simply because young attractive men haven't approached you doesn't mean that they don't find you attractive. Perhaps they are intimidated? Perhaps they don't know how to approach you?1
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I'm not sure why that is. Would you be interested in going out some time though?2
They act like perverts? ha! You seem mature for your age I guess.0
Teach me senpai hahah0
What Girls Said 3
I don't think there is a particular reason. If you're a good-looking girl, most men - also older, tend to stare.
I experience this a lot too, but whenever i don't feel like getting attention, i dress down.
Attention can be great, but if you want to have a great night out - but if you're just casually out, you might wanna dress down. Often, you get attention because you're "asking for it"uintentionally. If you don't want to be looked at, don't wear anything short, with cleavage og tight. Also try to changing your behavior. Smile only to friends or the ones you're out with and try not to get eye contact with these men who usually give you looks.
If you seem introverted and non-friendly towards them, they wouldn't contact you.0
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