We've been talking for 5 weeks now and hanging out. We've been dating for for 5 or 6 days now. He usually texts me first, at least daily. We talk about music and movies a lot.
"I'm not ready for a serious relationship right now, but I do like-like you. I don't want our relationship to become 100% sexual, because I like talking to you, and just hanging with you and watching movies with you too. You're an awesome person. I also do want to do sexual stuff with you as well, but I'm not in a place in my life where I can have a very serious relationship, we can be more than just friends with benefits, and it doesn't have to be an open relationship.."
(2) "... unless you want that. I just kind of want to go with the flow you know? And I'm not just some guy who's only interested in sex. I don't use people. Would you like to be boyfriend/ girlfriend? Because I would be happy with that But again, I'm not looking for a super serious relationship, just something relaxing, and chill, and good times which is always how I feel when we hang out"
He is right. He even acknowledged that he cannot be in a serious relationship since he's only 17... Either you are too serious or you are investing too much energy into him being your special dedicated boyfriend for 24/7. He's not your concierge or chaperone.
dont text him talk to him over the phone its better and i think he does but go on dates like the movies. the movies is the best place to go on a date ask him if he wants to see a movie