When the relationship is not working out, would you rather end it or wait him/her to end it? And why?

In this case you feel unattracted to him/her anymore and she/him knew that they are undesirable by you anymore. Would you have the guts to say break up or what?

  • no, I don't have a heart to let someone down, and I wish they would end it first
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  • yes, I say what I need to say.
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And you are? I'm a GirlI'm a Guy

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I end it- life is too short to waste time

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Most Helpful Girl

  • i've ended it twice. not because I'm a heartless person, but because i respect them too much to drag it out and give them the illusion that I'm so in love when I'm just... not.

    if i keep waiting and waiting, it only chokes me and deceives him.
    easily the most painful thing to do, but i couldn't leave it that way for too long.

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What Guys Said 1

  • Just end it, it may be hard, but its going to end anyway so do both of you a favor and get it over with.

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What Girls Said 4

  • If I'm not feeling it then it's just the decent thing to do by ending it. It might not be easy but that's a part of like.. sometimes you get dumped and other times you are the one doing the dumping. :/

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  • i think honesty should be used here!!

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  • for me i guess it really depends on the guy and what king of person he is and why i lost interest.

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  • I would rather end it, I tried it the other way and it did not work out well.

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