Throughout high school I had a lot of girls interested in me, I am pretty good looking (not a super model, but I am above average), so a lot of the girls I talked to would develop crushes on me. The problem, is that all the girls that liked me were just so unattractive. Most of them were nice people, that I liked hanging out with, but they just werent good looking. It doesn't matter how good of a person they are, if they are ugly that really hurts my ability to like them (if you think thats shallow I can direct you to a mytake I read earlier this month that perfectly sums up that misconception). And for some reason all the good looking, or even average girls, dont seem to pay me any mind. I occasionally try talking to them in class, or at events, but they just dont really seem interested in talking to me, maybe it is because I am not as funny as the other guys that hit on them? Is that a thing, I am not funny at all, I dont try to be funny, and I dont even really like jokes. I notice that women attractive women usually go gaga over guys that act like baffoons in order to get some laughs, or over guys that are completely annoying and childish, who happen to be "funny"(although they are only funny to the girl), could that be why the good looking girls dont like me? In college I have made friends with some better looking girls, but most of them have boyfriends, and even here, even though better looking girls are around me more, the 2 most unattractive girls in my friend group are the ones that like me. They constantly text me, call me, try to go hang out with me, and it is so annoying because if they were better looking I would go in a heartbeat. The good looking girls never text me, never try to get together, unless I intiate it. Its so annoying, as a guy of above average looks, I would assume that I should get at least an average girl interested in me, but so far all the girls that like me are below average and I can't stand it. Why?
Most Helpful Girl
At least you get attention from girls.0
Most Helpful Guy
Attraction is not a choice... but physical attractions is only part of the puzzle.
Are you SURE you're not being realistic with your requirements in relation to how YOU look?0