Can I kiss him out of the blue? Or ask him to go with me and then initiate a makeout session with him?

If we are on a party together, would it be wise if I go up to him and after flirting a bit start to kiss him. We haven't been romantically involved before but he usually flirts with me? I really like him and wonder if it it's okay. Do guys like it when girls do that or do they think it's too cheap, desperate or slutty?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • He won't think your trashy if you approach it the right way. Try this: next time you hang out with him at a party stay close to him, when you end up next to him rest your head on his shoulder, He should then put his arm around you, if not just grab his arm and place it around you. Start snuggling up then peck his neck, as time goes on keep pecking away, he should turn to you then you guys can get your make out session on lol

    Hope this helps!

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What Guys Said 5

  • What dlop3z said. If you're out with him just be by his side. It will let him know that you're not interested in any other guy. Look your arm in his or something.

    If he takes you home give him a kiss on the check and maybe invite him in to hang out for a little bit. Don't have sex if you're looking for a relationship, but flirt away! It's not cheap or slutty it shows that you know what you want!

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  • It's cheap and sexy. If you want loyalty from him don't do it. If you want a good time without a lot of obligation go for it.

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  • From personal experience, women who can assert themselves and give sexual instructions to a man for their own gratification are very hot, happy, and content.

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  • No, probably not. You don't want to come off as a slut or something. But go ahead and try to make him interested. Then you might actually start a relationship whereas if you "kissed him out of the blue" it would likely become a one-nighter.

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  • I can't say it's true for everyone but if a hot girl starts mackin on me I'm not gonna complain

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What Girls Said 1

  • from what I've heard, guys really like it when the girls make the first move. It makes them feel good? I gues that's the word you would use. So I say go for it! he'll love it :)

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    • That's true a lot of guys think it's attractive for the girl to make the first move

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