My friends tell me that I'll end up being a cat lady because I rarely have crushes, and even when I do and catch the guy's attention, I get bored from their personnalities, I find them attractive but immature. I don't want to date any random guy, I want to be 100% sure and I want him to blow my mind. Is it normal? I don't want to have hundreds of trials, I want to take my time and chose the best for me.
Look up in the sky! It's a bird! No, it's a plane! No - its your expectations!
No, you're just a picky person. Nothing wrong with that. You're the type of person who spends 10 minutes in the fruit aisle squeezing all the fruit. Takes a lot of time to get what you want, but you're getting the best in the batch compared to most others who are fine with any old fruit.
I am the same way. I do not find this abnormal. I simply do not want to waste my time like a lot of other people my age dating and sleeping around with the many. I do not need someone to be content with my life. I find most men unintersiting. I will only date the ones I find intriguing. Which has only been two people. Who gives a shit what everyone elses says darling! Of you're happy don't sweat what they say. One day you'll find someone who will blow you're mind away. And hopefully because you chose to do things you're way you will experience less heartbreaks becsuse those change people, sometimes for the worst :)
I understand the feeling. I mean you see your friends go through shitty relationships and so you try hard to not end up in one and so if there's something that says its not going to work you just leave.
I've been single for a while. i tend to be picky, without actually trying to. it use happens…like, for example, girls will be obvious that theyre interested, and then they're great people, and etc…but something just ''wont feel right''. and so, nothing happens. ever since the first time i fell in love when i was 13, I've been scared to fall in love again…so, i can kind of understand where you re coming from.
I used to get bored of guys so fast just like u actually , but then when i met my boyfriend i never got bored of him even after 1 year and a half of dating and i was amazed cuz i never lasted more than few months liking a guy , i think if u get bored it eans u didn't meet the one for you ^^ dont worry the best is yet to come ~ ><