First of all, I would like to mention that throughout my teen years I always had a lot of problems (and i still have) in real life and I never actually felt ready for a stable relationship that is why I didn't make a lot of contacts with girls and even ignored the ones which wanted to be close to me.
Therefore I think that it will just be too much for me to get into a serious relationship and waste even more nerves than I already do.
I also would like to resolve all my current problems before starting a serious relationship (so it has the effect of a new start) but I feel like it is getting way too late.
Do you guys think I should fix all my problems firstly and then establish a serious relationship as I don't feel ready for such a thing or just go for it without thinking about the rest?
no that's normal. each of us has a different pace.
If there is a girl you're interested in, you should to talk to her. Just try to have a balance. You don't have to 'fix all your problems' first. I see it as if she truly likes you, she will be there with you through it
Um why are you only considering something serious? I mean that if you are at a party (given you go to such events) and you are having a great time with a girl, you should just do what you want. There is no reason to feel a sense of commitment for doing something like kissing a girl.
And remember, a girlfriend isn't someone who is there just to fix your problems. ^^
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