OK so I am not going to lie and say I never reject guys based off their appearance so I will tell the truth and say I have done it before. Other big reasons include rude, immature, loud, sexist, racist etc.
Both are important, appearance and personality. He could be a 7 and have a 10 personality, that would make me date him. But if he's a 5 and have a 10 in personality I'm not sure... And I'm attracted to douchebags, so if he's a 9 in looks but a 5 in personality I would date him anyway.
If if he has nothing good to talk about, I don't care if he's super hot, people who can't have a nice conversation are a huge turn off, I love to talk and I need someone who want to talk about life, death, aliens, religion, the world, etc
Race has nothing to do with this, don't be ridiculous XD
Well, if I'm not interested in dating at the moment or already in a relationship, that'll make me instantly reject him (to date, but not to be friendly). Otherwise, just the usual deal breakers if he does these things while we are talking:
1) lack of intelligence; 2) poor hygiene; 3) personality of cardboard.
in my online-dating days, one guy (who is now my other half) stood out because he had evolved enough to 1) type in proper English, 2) carry on an intelligent conversation, and 3) did not jump to soliciting sex or dick pics. the fact that he's cute is just an added bonus.
for me, appearance (or other superficial things like race, money, religion, gender, etc.) matter very little. the only reason these would cause me to reject someone is if one or all of those things impacted his or her ability to respect me.
Guys who come off too strong, too dumb for intellectual conversations, trying to hard to be cool or showing off, give off the "douchebag" impression, unkind, have a bad body odour, wear uncoordinated clothes, dirty habits, below 5 in looks department, friends with people I would not normally associate myself with and obnoxious. There are many more when I actually think about this haha but this are kinda top on the list.
Ahahaha what 'Cuz he's asian'. My boyfriend's Asian and I love him so much and he is super good looking <3
I hate guys who act stupid or if they are really rude to girls and don't put in any effort for the girl. If you do something nice for her it is the best doesn't matter what you look like:) if she doesn't appreciate it don't waste your time on her
oh and a small thing it is super nice if they smell good :P
There are lots of reasons I might not find a guy attractive. A pick-up line that makes him sound like a sleazy salesman. Bad breath. No ass would definitely be points against a guy. I get the impression (or he makes it clear) he's only in it for sex. Tan line where his wedding band was just before he came in to the bar. Comments that make it clear we are incompatible (the guy who was excited to learn that I'm biracial 'cause he "always wanted to have someone 'exotic'.") He gets in my space or otherwise gives off a not-safe-to-be-alone-with vibe
1. Not so much his appearance cause you can't judge a book by its cover but then again who wants someone dressed in ragged clothing to speak to them? 2. The way they speak 3. Their personality matters also. A great Personality is required. 4. Someone ambitious who know what their about.
Why would I not date him cuz he's Asian? Anyway one thing that would throw me off is bad hygiene, it disgusts when a somebody's breath smells whether it be male or female. Overly clingy, if we have have just met and you're already nose distance from my face or you're following me and interlocking arms with me on the first week we've know each other it bother me a bit/annoys me. But there's an exception for that special person
First off.. Lord how many crushes on Asian dudes have i had. Haha a lot. Hot as shit. i wouldn't completely disregard a guy for anything physically at first if he approached me. But some of my TURN OFFS are...
1 when he is pushy/wants what he wants 2 doesn't like dogs 3 cares too much about what he looks like/ does things to seem "cooler" or just can't be himself 100% 4 he is shorter than me (lol i'm 5'1") 5 can't take a joke/ doesn't get my sarcasm 6 thinks making fun of people is funny (there is a difference between playing around and being unnecesarily rude) 7 has very fine facial hair but decides to try to grow it out (it just looks like you just hit puberty) a thin mustache is just appauling 8 super skinny (i like em cuddly) 9 doesn't have any hobbies or passions/ unambitious 10 can't get down n dirty because i like to go on random outdoor adventures 11 clean freak so i can't mess his hair up or get dirt on his shoes or anything like that.
For me its usually because he's ugly or just not my type. Never because he's Asian.
Actually I've never rejected an Asian guy (because I never get approached by asians).
Appereance is always first, and personality is second. That is, when it comes to first impressions. However, if you can make your personality dramatically outshine your looks (or at even compliment your looks), then that's always better,
While there are a bunch of dealbreakers (rude, too cocky, too awkward, hygiene) that all misses the point that rejection is the normal state. Though there are things that trigger instant rejection, you can avoid all of them and still get mainly rejected.
There actually has to be a reason for her to WANT to see you again, as WELL as no dealbreakers that prevent it.
And that's usually some mix of looks, charm, common interests, seeming 'cool' whatever that means to her.
Its his penis they have a data base on this stuff as girls talk about everything.
because if you are a major creep her in gag you won't get any cuties
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